Not every radical life transformation comes with a new job title a baby a new home a presence or an absence that can be seen and felt a visible change. I call these rites of the heart. They’re the times of deep change in our...
Sweet love, please know becoming unfolds in its own way. It takes its own time. Also: You can be trusted with your own becoming. Your body can be trusted. Stay present, and be a witness to yourself. It takes time, and you can’t...
I sat down this morning at my desk and sighed heavily, pulling my grandmother’s fleece shawl a little tighter around my shoulders. I lit my sandalwood-scented candle and, as I often do when I wake in the mornings, I pulled a tarot card. The 7 of...
For me it began every day as I rode the elevator from the tenth floor in my heels and business casual slacks climbed into the car with my husband and wept. For me it began as I rocked and swayed and screamed my way into...
Everything is up in the air. One deep breath. I don’t know who I am anymore. A glass of water. I’m lost. Belly to the earth, feet wide, head cradled. Heart. Beat. “I know honeybabe. It’s hard...
