What are you grieving?

What are you grieving?

  What are you grieving right now?   Although perhaps you may be grieving in the way we usually think of it – grieving a death, specifically – you may be grieving and not even realize it. Our culture’s comfort with the conversation around...
For when you’re Both / And

For when you’re Both / And

  My friend**,   You are allowed.   You are allowed to be both full of rage and delight at the same time You are allowed to love your body one day and spend a hundred sad minutes in front of the mirror the next. You are allowed. To both love and hate...
The darkness found us here

The darkness found us here

  The sun was streaming through the windows, and the playlist was earthy but upbeat.   I was ready. So, so ready.   The past few months have felt…sticky.   When I look at the moments that have made up this winter season, they have been filled...
All of you is welcome here

All of you is welcome here

  I’ve been feeling frustrated with my social media feeds lately.   There’s so much fucking Love and Light.   (sun-lit fields and yoga poses and paragraph upon paragraph of wisdom) It’s blinding me. (I will be the first to admit that...